It is completely bizarre to me that you would take your time, money, and energy in order to go to therapy and consistently refuse to talk honestly and openly with your various T's. I'd like to see the "evidence" that this approach is successful, either in theory or in your own life.

It's only slightly less bizarre to me that I read and actually occasionally attempt to respond to your posts. Because I consistently feel like beating my head against a wall afterwards. Perhaps I have learned my lesson now.

Anne