Trippin'! It's hard when your logic knows and your heart and emotions won't listen. Try to re-inforce your logic (yeah, I know...). For me, when it's just in my head, it goes around and around (and around and around...). The other day, I had an idea. Wasn't sure if it was a good one or one that would make trouble for me. So... wrote a post about it (in email, never posted it). Spent all day editing. By the time it was done, it'd been whittled down to the real essentials. Read it. The answer was then obvious, so I didn't need to post it. It really helped to write it out, then bring it down to bare bones with no "but this" "but that". Made me feel confident in the decision. I surely don't need any more pain, let alone to bring it on myself.

(I've never had success with pro/con lists. Though this is kind of a form of it, it's one that works better. For me anyway. Just an idea.)

Hope you are feeling better...