{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Dexter}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} It doesn't sound right and at times it can make the person hearing or reading it angry or hurt, but know that you are where you need to be at this moment. You will move forward, you will come out on the other side. I've said it before and I'll say it again; give yourself permission to just "Be." Stop beating yourself up because you aren't were you used to be a few years ago. You're on a journey. Right now you're in a valley... soon you will be climbing green hills.