Thank you for your post as well Ardmore. I have so many things to write, so many people to write to. So many thoughts and things I've needed to say for so long but I'm at work now so I wont be able to write my dear abuser letter until I get off work in a few hours. Thanks for the replies and I hope to hear from more soon. I don't wish the bad things on you, I only wish you to heal from them and have a place to let your anger out in. I know I need one!