I'm kinda opposite from u Squiggle, I'd like to talk about past events but my t's usually want to talk about current stuff I think- just a little bit of past stuff. It's not because their orientation is not to talk about past stuff- it is. They just don't lead in that direction with me.
I'm uncomfortable to tell them the past stuff I know of because I think they'll think I'm making up excuses and blaming the past, and maybe I am. So I guess I'm saying that talking about current stuff can be the harder thing to do sometimes. It seems harder to me anyway. No one except me responsible for current stuff.