this is not just about romantic relationships.

I need to know something from you guys and you can feel free to just give me your feedback.

I read into things a lot and into ppl when there is nothing to worry about; at least that's what many ppl tell me.

Half the time, though, I don't know if that's an excuse or cover up for their being "busted" by me for having issues about me.

when am I reading into something and when is my "feeling" right?

So hard to tell.

Have issues with my therapist, feeling like she is uncomfortable with me.

I also get regularly kicked out of a mIRC chatroom and when I get back in, they keep telling me it's a "netsplit" and I wonder if it isn't. I have been thru netsplits before and have always had no problem getting back into that room until recently.

I get so scared I am not wanted and ppl lie about it.

when am I reading into things and when am I right?

Because when this happens, I may be right, and I may need to take action, sometimes, to defend my right to therapy, a practical relationship, or to be in a group/chatroom with regular participation priviledges.

thanks,

Billi