Thanks for understanding Pegasus I agree with you that he should not have promised and here I sound like I am waffleing but I am really not..I do not think he crossed what I call my boundaries or anything and I REALLY DO think he meant it when he promised but.........he didn't live up to that promise and I asked point blank..I am not a huge online detail person but I made it clear I didnt want to be dumped or I would start moving away....but he said and SWORE money would NEVER be an issue even if the clinic said no..he said he did not let others dictate how he did therapy...but ya know... he bailed on me a year later ...and that hurts ...and wounds