I am not sure if seeing these as two parts are helpful if you are not having any current problems with it. My little girl is a nuisance to me right now, having tantrums and such. T can get her to talk in session. Weird. I was not aware of it but T was and let me know about it. So I think it is best to explore this topic with your T. As far as working with T about this little girl I feel as if I am on a roller coaster ride and T has total control of the car. I can write with my left hand and little girl can talk. (I am right-handed) She is separate from me, yet she is me. I am learning the mind is a complicated thing.