Dear abuser...you destroyed our family...the violence...and horrendous unspeakable things you have done..and some you denied...trying to make the ones u did it to..look the bad ones..when we know different...you get to walk around and pretend it all didn't happen and expect us all to..while you have never paid a price for what you have done to each of us in this family. The only reason you walk about free is because of the humiliation and hurt that would come from us telling..and having to pay a price yet again..and have worn us all down.....all because you are sick..and chose to do things u knew not to do. You put me in a situation I should never have to be in....and created unimaginable pain. I truly don't see how you can stand to even be alive..as if I did such things..I know I surely wouldn't be able to bear it. I want so much to relieve myself of the burden of the secrets...and let the situation be in the light and dealt with accordingly...but, I have to honor the others u hurt and thier wishes not to go thru more pain doing so. We can't even get counseling as we would have to tell what happened for it to do any good.....so..we continue to suffer thru this.....I realize this is wasted breath as you already know the damage and hurt you caused..and are too afraid I am sure to deal with the consequences and humiliation you too would endure. Never see any remorse from you....wish you had never come into our lives.