Well I've tried to chuck him out many many times! It's really hard to do, I'm not physically strong enough. How do you make somebody leave you? I can't change the locks (no money and I'm renting so not allowed).
The more I read about npd the more in sounds like me too...just without the big ego bit..I have no self esteem at all, I was reading some of Shari Schreiber's articles. How I feel inside is like that, but I don't lie or have the confidence that appears to go with npd. All this needing other people to validate who I am applies to me, I am a mirror. If people treat me bad I must be worthless. So perhaps he is right and it is me all along. Very confused.