i started seeing my t 3 years ago. i am very connected to her, which is a miracle. i dont trust easy. and i only went to counselling cause i had to.
i didnt begin seeing her for sexual abuse issues. but they have started coming up recently. she mentioned one time she couldnt read any books that even mentioned sexual abuse and said some other things recently that made me ask her today if it was hard for her to listen to me talk about a memory. (ive only told her 2 but wanted to discuss one with her next appt.) she said yes, it was one of her limitations, that she didnt know how to do it. i feel awful. here ive been telling her these memories and its hard for her and she never said anything. so i dont know what to do. i need to talk about it, but i cant with her. she didnt say i cant, but i dont want to cause her pain. i dont know what to do. ideas? and y is that hard for her? did something happen to her???