Whoa - for one thing, this girl was out of line for telling you where he was, if he didn't tell you himself, so you could deal with your transference feelings in session. You know how Rainbow8's therapist has asked her not to 'do' her therapy on here? This is why - now it's like you're doing your therapy WITH THIS GIRL, not your T. She is not equipped to deal with your inner 10-year old's anger and jealousy - your T is (maybe!). He has his reasons, you deal with it when he gets back, yes it is frustrating - but you don't let stuff distract you from getting what YOU want in life. And you do want this therapy, and you're doing a good job of it. You're leading me. I have to go get my laundry out of the dryer, but i'll be back!