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Originally Posted by BNLsMOM
The more I read, the more I get creeped out.
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I could not possibly agree more.
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Originally Posted by BNLsMOM
Yes I suggest that if you ultimately intend to meet him that you are in public for the entire time.
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I would agree, but for feeling so very strongly that you shouldn't do it at all, ML. Besides the major league creep factor, consider this...
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Originally Posted by Miss Laura
He has booked the time off work and has already got his coach ticket to come up. Maybe I can go out for dinner with him we would be in public...
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He's already gotten off work and gotten a ticket? So what? Does making a good decision for yourself, regardless of the timing, make you feel guilty? How very convenient for him. Guilt makes manipulation
way too easy. Between the "love", "meant to be together" and "already booked", he is really giving that manipulation and baiting routine a workout. I hope you can see it for what it is, and not be fooled. If you find it hard not cave to manipulation from a distance, think how much harder it would be in person. This is (yet another) reason why I think even the restaurant is a very bad idea. He is already showing himself as a manipulator. It would be even easier for him to manipulate you into bad decisions in person!!! At least you have the distance to be able to reason a little now. Don't put yourself in that position.
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Originally Posted by Miss Laura
...I have deleted 2 guys from my phone this week and feel so much better for doing so...
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Good for you!
You will feel so good for making a good decision in this matter as well. Strength builds on strength.
