him saying he loves u and its meant to b is a little freaky but i recommend not staying the night with him , that is not taking it slow. people are always going to judge you. if u feel good about who u are then u have nothing to worry. please urself not others do what makes u happy and makes u feel good about urself.

in all b safe! if its something ur doubting or have to think twice about then just go with ur gut feeling!