Thanks Hankster...to be fair to the girl she has no ethical obligation for not telling me-she is just an intern with him and I know her personally (the "perks" of living in a small town) I usually don't talk with her about T-and I had the weirdest feeling to not ask her...but did it anyways...I think I learned my lesson here...and maybe I should tell her I don't want her to tell me things she knows about T...because she has no idea that I deal with this type of jealous/anger....so now I feel in such a weird position because I will be beyond mortified to tell T that I asked her and was upset when she told me-I just don't even want to go there...
Thanks eastcoaster...I have an iphone I can check out the app