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Old Oct 17, 2011, 02:09 AM
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Originally Posted by PurpleFlyingMonkeys View Post
Is starting to make me uncomfortable... He's starting to say some partially negative things about my boyfriend to me... Like "f*** him" and "he's not the friend I thought he was" all the while sending me messages saying I will be his agent with wink faces. Asking if I can do him all these favors and saying words like "stunning" to me and such. It upsets my boyfriend but he trusts me. I don't know what to do...

I;'m terrible at rejecting people. It's a fear thing. It hasn't gone over well in the past, telling people no.. I hate when men touch me, but I have no courage to tell them no... I try and I quickly run away but I have no backbone to verbally stand up for myself.. I don't know what to do or if I posted this in the right spot... But I wish his friend would leave me alone... He's not my friend, I don't wish to be friends with him, especially like that. I love my boyfriend. I don't want to be bothered with anyone else... eck...
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PFM.,
[sorry large print ]
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You posted this a couple days ago. Your mood thing says "hot" ( take that as being bothered ).
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From what you descibed, I will guess the age bracket is between 16 and maybe 20 years old. [ you and those that you speak of ].
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Sounds as if this other friend person that is dissing your bf , is playing ya. Trying to find a *chink* in your armour.
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But what you say here is that you already have one.
I hate when men touch me, but I have no courage to tell them no... I try and I quickly run away but I have no backbone to verbally stand up for myself..
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Not to say doom and gloom here. But your BF saying he trusts you , and you feeling an inability to say no, [ as another said already, your bf should stand-up. ]
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I want to say something that might not exactly sound supportive at first read , But, Maybe build that verbal backbone and say NO to everybody that suppresses your feeling/thoughts of courage.
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btw, hope you come back to this post and reply to those that have read and given you encouragement. :-)
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Specialeffects
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Thanks for this!
PurpleFlyingMonkeys