So, I am new to this website. I have met my soul mate, his name is Josh and we've been together for 4 years. I am very happy with him, however, I go to school full time and I work part time and I feel like a lot of our bills and responsibilities are on me and I feel like it is not fair.

He is suppose to be applying to jobs so we can have more money and he just is too lazy to do it. He is suppose to do so many things and he just doesn't do them because he is lazy.

I don't know how to get him to do these things and I refuse to enable him- but I am sick of the burden and knowing I have to take care of all the bills and everything.

Any suggestions?

Thanks you.

Amanda