Desirae-

I'm very sorry for your situation. That has got to be very hard, especially since you've gotten sober yourself. You know he has to hit his own bottom. Nothing you do will make him realize it. If you really can't take anymore, maybe it's time for a separation. One of the hardest things for us in recovery is seeing the alcoholic who still suffers...and we can't do anything about it. It looks like you have a decision to make. Give up and leave, or support him until he hits a bottom, keeping it mind that he might never. Maybe if he sees he might loose you and the kids, he'd see that he has a problem. Who knows? Keep us posted and hang in there. =)

~Rayna