Hmmm, short of quitting your job and staying home and watching soaps all day and counting him to support you both (he won't or can't), I'd say, get rid of him. You don't need to be working so hard in a relationship when the other person doesn't put forth the effort. Does he contribute anything like cleaning the apartment and cooking and helping in all the other ways he could possibly help?

If he is not contributing to the relationship in this way, ask yourself in what ways he contributes to the relationship? Being cute and funny doesn't count...

Good luck with this one.