Candybear,

When I have major life decisions to make, I get a bag of M&M's. Then I sit and ask the questions or concerns that I'm dealing with.

If I move to my sister's house, I won't have to worry so much about finances. That is a good thing so move one M&M into the "good" pile.

When you are done, the M&M's will visually show you what decision outweighs the other.

And then you get to eat them.

This works well with Cheez-Its too.