Candy,

OK, it looks like you could jump either way.

For me, the clincher would be your relationship with your sister. That's obviously a personal matter that only you know about.

If you have a pretty relaxed relationship, and are both clear about the arrangements, then it feels like a good opportunity. It could work out really well, and then with you fitter and stronger you could take up some work again.

In your shoes I would be looking for the easiest option at the moment, and then thinking of the long term later on. I would want somewhere to lay my head down for a while.

That's my 2p, but I don't want to influence you either way, in case it's wrong!

Good thoughts, M