Thanks, stumpy. I'm not calling or emailing my T yet. Your post made me sad but you're right. I do need to contact her about my appointment for next week but I can do it later in the week.

What I noticed is that I'm thinking more about my T now. But I'm going to think about my friend and her suffering family and write something comforting for them, or at least express my feelings to them, instead of thinking about my T.

I'm also going to enjoy every minute with my family here. One d. and family are on their way home now. Trying not to worry. One birthday girl here is sick and didn't go to school. We are all under the weather but at least we are all alive and healthy.