I have a friend who is in a similar situation. I know I sound like the one-up character on Saturday Night Live. A woman I worked with used to call me Columbo because like the lieutenant, I always had a cousin who did this or that. Anyway, this one person holds the neighbors hostage - in my friend's case, yes there IS more than one opinion in agreement against this person, the condo board is involved, and still the neighbors are in hell. I blame the Republicans. What else can you do?!