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Originally Posted by KathyLittle
My husband is the same. He doesn't push me to work and really only wants me to be happy. I'm trying hard to be happy. I'm reading all about healthy coping skills. Trying hard to use them. Being bad is so easy, being good is such a challenge.
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Maybe it'd help both of us to look at it in terms of "sick" or "disorder" instead of "bad" and "good". I tend to do the same, but I think maybe that just adds to our guilt. My husband always says when I apologize, "It's not your fault. You have a problem." Maybe we should look at it in terms of simply having a problem that's hard to control instead of labeling ourselves bad people. I know though, easier said than done, but it's worth a shot.
