Wow what a lot of debate!

I wanted to say a couple of things, firstly as I feel more real being on here that I do in real life, what does that mean? Which is therefore more real? Me being real on the internet, or me not being real when dealing with people face to face? Hmm.

Secondly, I read from one of your posts Ygrec23 that you said sorry to disappoint us on here with "Is that all?" - I don't follow peoples posts to be nosey like some soap opera of will they won't they? - let's all vote now - I follow both for my own personal growth (I have learned so much from others on here), but also because I genuinely feel admiration and a sense of hope when I read that someone has taken a step forward - that would be the same if someone had a deep realisation about some traumatic abuse or finally discovered that oranges grow on trees - the content to me is not the important bit, but it is the way if makes someone feel and I get from your posts here, that this has had an impact on the way you feel and that is wonderful.