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Originally Posted by 2or3things
I think it’s fundamentally unfair and crappy and not OK that, in order to have the "privilege" of slogging through the miserable heartbreak of accepting that my Mom wasn’t much of a mom, I have to have my heart broken via an unrequited mom crush on my T. It really, really sucks.
That's all. I just wanted to say it. Although, feel free to discuss if you like...especially if you see some way of working through the mom stuff w/out feeling the T feelings. 
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Yes, it does seem fundamentally unfair. I'm sorry.
Unfortunately, I know ALOT about transference. Much more than I ever cared to know.
I wish I could provide some insight which would help you work through the Mom stuff without feeling the T feelings, but honestly, I believe it is in
this space where the potential for healing begins.
