Hey billi,

My questions to you would be, are you "assuming" things or is it your "gut" telling you something is up? In trying to figure this out, you may get your answer.

Billi: I need to sit very quiet and "feel" that gut. I am learning how to do that. thanks.

As far as your issue with mIRC goes, I used to frequent the mIRC chat program. Netsplits happen all the time.

Billi: Okay, that might be true. Just never had so much trouble getting back in. Never had to deal with so many either. And the people there were very defensive toward me about it, which bothered my "gut" a little.

There are so many servers (many many more than when I was on there) that they sometimes get out of synch and a split happens.

Billi: I don't know why they don't ever use a different server.

If someone was kicking you from the chat room you would be receiving a message that you were kicked and sometimes a reason (if they put one in).

Billi: I dont' get messages like that, but someone could possibly be kicking me in a different way without that message? Not sure. And again, they are very defensive about it and not very supportive, even though I am very diplomatic about this.



sabby