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Old Oct 17, 2011, 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Ygrec23 View Post
Though I have to say that I think both on and off the internet are "real." In one environment (there) I feel very limited, tongue-tied, frightened. In the other (here) I can say what I think and feel without fear or favor, but with consideration and kindness. Neither is "more real" than the other.
I have not found that I can say what I think and feel either here nor IRL. However, I have found that more and more of the time I can be mindful of what I think and feel, regardless. That did not use to be the case, and it is still not easy for me to make the distinction between thinking what I want and saying what I want. Not being free to say it is not the same as not being free to think it.
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