he told me that if i wanted to have sex with someone else he would allow me to do so depending how he felt.

honestly i dont think am cut out for an open relationship. am very emotional and needy and insecure. i feel it would do more harm then well.

i think he feels this way because hes a very sexual person and i guess the fact that hes only going to have sex with me kinda gets to him

but then again i ask myself if it is considered to b an open marriage if its allowed once. i know it will not b a frequent thing.

and hes not asking me to consider doing one. it was just a topic we touched but i think its something he would like to do as far as me giving him the ok to have sex with a different women.