I joined flylady.net but the site did not really suit my needs. She says, the very first thing you should do is clean your kitchen sink. Well that didn't work for me because my sink didn't drain and was full of nasty water/drano combination and insects buzzing about. I had to hire a plumber before I could even think of cleaning my sink.

I signed up to receive email from her site and I was receiving several emails per day and then had email clutter and personally I didn't find them helpful. I know she helps some people but we just didn't click.

I did find another site that is actually helpful to me though. I have been there over a year and I like going to chat because the members are so motivating and supportive. People post interesting things in the forums too but chat is what inspires me. If anyone is interested in checking it out it is at ---> http://takeonestepatatime.proboards.com/index.cgi

Let me know if we are going to set up some kind of support here at PC for hoarders/squalor.