Sky thanks yes he ought to be open to discuss this junk I know.....but the times I have semi...semi ...brought it up....he just sez things like I don't like to deal with the finacial end of it ...or ...talk to the main office or the gal at the desk..or he makes a joke..anything to avoid a convo on it,...I am a kind person so I dont wanna beat the dude over the head with it so I watch how I word it so as not to whine...BUT YOU PROMISED....though a small part of me would like to...yet I really do know he did mean it when he said it and why shame him..and then it goes back into a circle in my head and heart ..the one you all see in here..and I end up nowhere. Its rather sad all in all..Good intentions, kind man....but still he left me alone in the dark