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Old Oct 17, 2011, 11:16 PM
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Originally Posted by hankster View Post
Well, I'm - I don't know what! It is very well known - it's an old joke, even - that a T will sit there while BOTH of you say nothing, then at the end of the hour, say, "Same time next week?" as if it were a perfectly normal session! I can understand her not calling you back. The time to talk is during a session, not on the phone after a not-talking session. So she will listen to you and talk to you at your next session. Don't you always have Monday at the same time? Or did she tell you THIS time that you could not do this (no talking)? Because you had a MAJOR stressor, didn't you? A few months ago, you wouldn't even have shown up. I think she is being hasty and arbitrary in her decision to cut you off, and not being a good therapist. You could email her this thread. She does not have all the info. Don't turn her into the mother.
i'm not allowed to e-mail her at all alli can do is call her and i did she wont respond .i cant send her a letter because she wont read it unless i'm in session.i really dont think she wanted to work with me and this was her way of setting me up to fail so she didnt have to see me any more.i guess it is as good a way as any to stop T with a client and still be able to say hay i did all i could.if she told me that i cant leave a session like that a long time ago.how am i to know if she even wants me to come back.if i cant e0mail or write and she wont call because talking is for session.god i hate my life
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