Hi again.

I've posted on here a few times over the past few weeks regarding the situation with my expartner.

We split after I found she was having an affair; or rather I moved out! Ever since I noticed she was behaving in ways typical to having BP and she was on fluoxetine (no other medication).

She has been off fluoxetine for about 6 weeks now but doesnt show signs crashing but has calmed down a bit (she had been on fluoxetine for about a year). She is still very distant with me although she will now sit in the same room as me!

She had started seeing a new guy and then broke it off and now she is back seeing him again (according to my kids).

This seems to be quite an extended amount of time and I'm coming to terms with the fact that she might well be over her manic episode but has no feelings for me any longer!

Do you think, that my being absent has basically put a nail in the coffin? I had to stay away as she was making up stories about me and making it hard for to see her or go to the house (even to see the kids).

She doesnt do this any longer and I do now see the kids once or twice a week. She is very reluctant to talk to me about 'us'. When I mentioned via text that I still love and care for her she told me she doesnt feel the same still although she has finished with the guy she was seeing. However, 2 weeks down the road she is seeing this guy once again!

Do you think it is possible that she may still be in an episode after all this time? Or possibly has recovered somewhat but just has no feelings for me still? Could the fact she was on fluoxetine make this episode last an extended period?

We've been split now for 4 months and it is starting to take its strain on my mentally and emotionally. There would be a lot of mess to clean up between us, but she is the mover of my son and I care for her and love her dearly.