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Originally Posted by 2or3things
I think it’s fundamentally unfair and crappy and not OK that, in order to have the "privilege" of slogging through the miserable heartbreak of accepting that my Mom wasn’t much of a mom, I have to have my heart broken via an unrequited mom crush on my T. It really, really sucks.
That's all. I just wanted to say it. Although, feel free to discuss if you like...especially if you see some way of working through the mom stuff w/out feeling the T feelings. 
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I had the same thing only with my father/T. Still getting over it. It SUCKS. But it's worse if the T doesn't handle it appropriately. You may think you want the hugs and loves from your T, but you don't, trust me. It just makes things worse.