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Old Oct 18, 2011, 10:53 AM
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Originally Posted by ladyjrnlist View Post
I had the same thing only with my father/T. Still getting over it. It SUCKS. But it's worse if the T doesn't handle it appropriately. You may think you want the hugs and loves from your T, but you don't, trust me. It just makes things worse.
Hi Ladyjrnlist
That's interesting because I do get lovely maternal (in my mind) hugs from my T and she knows I see her in that way. Can you share a bit about what would make things worse? Do you think with the love/hugs we get too close/dependent on T? It's all confusing me!

Nelliecat