honestly i dont kno if she is exaggerating. for women its harder to tell guys especially if its ur bf how many u have been with. if its too many they are percieved to b sluts. if men do it its like kudos to u! kno what i mean? as far as doing sexual experiments involving each other i dont think its bad as long as both agree to it and ur safe about it. and i dont think going to stripclub is like cheating. insecurites on her behave i would say. i would go to a stripclub with my husband besides a lot of clubs have a no touch rule. now if u make it a habit of going sorta like an addiction then u have a prblm. try improving ur communication. being more honest with each other. i wouldnt say u need consueling i would suggest more of the both of u need couples consueling so u both understand each other and are on the same page.

just because u seek counsuling doesnt make u crazy or u shouldnt feel bad about it. sometimes u just need some1 else to view each others stand point and suggest a solution.

take care hope i helped!