first im really sorry that happened to you - but i am very glad you are getting help

im a bit confused by your last sentence "How do I explain to my parents I don't want them coming in without having to talk to them about what happened? " - ok i think i have it - you think that if you tell them you dont want them to come into your room they will say why? and that will lead to talking about what happened? do i have that right?

Just my opinion - but I think they will find it hard to understand - if you havnt had your sense of security stolen - its hard for people to understand that - the need for a safe place that you are in control of -

can you just say there are more things you want to show them than your room and keep them busy and away from it?

if youre friends can help keeping them chatting ..maybe? just a thought -

if yuo have things of interest - historical things - show them that or nice grounds.... just say they can see your room another time - and in time it may be ok for you to let them in.

have you discussed this wiht your T? they could probably help you

I hopeit works out for you

P7