maybe he did talk to your husband & you don't recall it...or there is more to the conversation that you can't recall since you stated you were indeed pretty messed up.

chances are he told you to go to the er or at least wake up your husband. sometimes when you are messed up (at least speaking for me) i don't hear completely what people are saying to me& then when i try to recall it later on when sober i get a completely different take on the situation.

did your husband mention anything about the incident?

i would certainly talk to both of them about the situation & find out what happened just to be clear.

what if he had told your husband to call 911 have have them pump your stomach? would you then be complaining of his over reaction? you said yourself you did feel like you were "overdosing"..& wanted to see some reaction..

chances are he assessed you & found you to be somewhat a mess but not in as much danger as you think you were & deemed you ok..especially since you had someone nearby. he probably did say go to the er etc.

he probably also said no meds & drinking alcohol.

not to be ugly but while you may go in there all upset about his reaction don't expect him to be all kind & warm & fuzzy.

it's a no win situation for him...assess over the phone to see how messed up you are & take a chance you will be ok (which i am figuring he did..going on that you might not have been as bad as you sound) or call 911 & have them scoop you up. it seems either way he will catch crap from you.

the responsibility isn't on him...really it is on you to take your meds responsibly. that is what it boils down too...i bet if you call him another time you will get the all expense paid ride in the van with the pretty flashy lights & the woop woop horn.

what did you expect him to do when you called? what did you WANT him to do?

stumpy