I think sometimes we just want comfort and reassurance and being messed up can lessen our normal inhibitions. It is normal for you to want to talk to you T when upset.

It may be perceived as "testing" the T or seeing if they will come through. In fact, it is hard not to read into how a T reacts when you are in trouble, and to assume how much they really care/can help from that.

But I hope you can guys can sit down together and talk objectively about what this episode means and what is really going on with you, in your life right now.

Take gentle care!