Thanks for everything you have said.Its so encouraging. I spoke with my husband last night on why I have to put myself forward in everyhting I do.My inlaws dont treat me well as I have a toxic sister in law(shes just evil and alot of people dont like her in our town).Well anyway, he agrees and said he will always support me. I have set boundaries for my family and his. And he will and has respected that.We both have very strong faith in God. We have wonderful friends.I have good friends but none can understand a toxic mother so I dont tell anyone anymore. I have told 2 girlfriends and they made me feel mad and really bad!I believe this stems from jealousy on their part, they love to put me down as its their only weapon against me.(they can't bear the fact I married a wonderful man, successful financially,dont look like the 'back of the bus' lol).Well anyway, I have my confidante who is my husband and 2best friends who are guys and have many women friends never to depend on.It feels like with faith we learn that God is the ultimate and I dont depend on people.
OK Now I'm feeling bad about how your father handled the news on your return to England.You dont need to be bullied anymore. I hope you told him it's none of his business and cut the conversation short.
I thought I had forgiven and let go until I got the email from my sister and then it rattled me.So now I'm starting a process and prayer on letting go.I have to.I dont want Mother to win anymore and I end up with cancer!
Thanks.
Sending you all the love and strenght!