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I'm so sorry your father said that to you. It was wrong of him. My mother said how I was a boring baby.

Honestly, hon, in both cases I feel this is More About Them Than Us.... it was Wrong of any parent to say their child is "boring". WTF? How can a baby or young child have the intellect or skills of an adult? I do not think so....

But I can see how this wound can make us feel so hurt by any rejection.

When someone befriends us and rejects us, its sometimes about them, and their wounds (maybe they are afraid of getting close...)

If you keep the two separate, the recent rejection and the wound from childhood.... and tell yourself the truth, that you're a great person, I hope you find healing from this pain soon
(its this lady's loss, imho! )