Hi
This is all so similar to what my best friend is going through.Of course he only told us after it just shocked him so much despite taking all of it , before.I asked him to go home o have dinner with her the ask her to leave and stay at her Mom's.She needs to get help but its best to separate for a few days.....
Being apart gave him enough time, strength, courage to get her out of his life!!!!Immediately when she left my husband and I listened to all his stories and the gory details.I wept at night and was so terribly disturbed.How could he be hurt like that.There are physical scars all hidden so we cant see. Divine intervention, his parents asked him to meet him overseas over a business matter so he is away now.Told his parents and they have asked him to kick her out of his life. he has the support. She (wife) tried to steal more money from him from internet banking and sent emails to all his friends but we stand by him.
Please leave her.She will not improve.Pls tell someone very close to you.We care.I knew something was wrong with her.I knew.I didnt know she was so evil to cause so much hurt and pain. Please leave.Please, please leave.Tell your friend and they can plan it in a smart way.Like I did!
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Originally Posted by Ygrec23
Yeah, it's true. She does. She's only five foot tall. Weighs in at around 130. Is an old lady and not terribly strong. But by God she lets me have it when she gets angry, which isn't all that infrequently.
Me, I'm normal. About six foot, 180 pounds. Average strength. If I ever had hit her I'd have hurt her, so I never have.
When she hits me (sometimes over and over and over) it really doesn't hurt, but it's saddening. Makes me feel bad.
We're simply not the kind of people who get the authorities involved in such things. Never have, never will.
But I'd really like to break her of the habit. It's just embarassing. And sad.
She hits me and wonders out loud why she married me. Hits me in anger and spite. We've been together 42 years.
No, I'm no ladies' dream. All I am is a guy who earned a decent living for a good while and then didn't. And she still comes from the mindset that men make the money and women cook and keep house. Really. It may well be hard to believe in these present days, but it's true.
So we live in the past. And she hits me for what she's missed, what she didn't have and never got. God bless us all.  |