I realize that we can't go through this life alone but after hearing from so many people {usually ones who don't realize my desperate situation} things like "depressed people just need to get over it"," everyone has problems,you just need to pull yourself up by your bootstraps and continue on", "You're not depressed!", "you become part of the problem instead of the solution". After telling my husband I was molested I got the "everyone has problems"...kinda "just deal with it" mentality. I mean where do you turn for help, for friends-the ones I have turn their back on me and run--leaving me alone again. So we need help---in the comfort of others, but also need to be okay on our own. Where/Who do I turn to and how do I do it alone if I'm not supposed to do it alone? It's a fine line and I have NO trust in anyone anymore. Get stabbed in the back and left so many times how do you continue forward with any relationship? Hope this makes "sense" Don't mean to sound crazy...just trying to figure it all out. Thanks for reading.