I'm going to jump in here again, to speak about whether you're a good partner for your wife...as mentioned in the OP. Its great to have a couple who's deeply in love with each other, but the whole concept of love is hard to pinpoint. What's easier to pinpoint are people's needs. After a couple lives years together, what really matters is how compatible they are and are their needs being met. Its not like you kidnapped your wife and she doesn't have a choice in her life. I remember reading in one of your threads, your wife actually keeps you in check sometimes. You also said in one of your threads, you have preferences for some people even if its not a loving feeling coming from you. You're obviously smart, therefore you don't want to mess up this partnership and you must know what makes your wife content and what makes her mad - you're a psychopath but you're not dumb or incapable of common sense.

So let me ask the simple questions - is your wife happy? If she's not happy with something - are you willing to negotiate? Does she care for you despite your diagnosis? If she were to make a list of pros and cons...would the pros be greater?