Sorry I was really off yesterday. What I was trying to find out is, do you just want like cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) for the symptoms, if that is possible? Or are you trying to desensitize yourself somewhat here? Or find out what it's like to talk about these things? You keep saying "face-to-face" - really, you shouldn't have to literally be looking at your T when you're in session - Freud had people on a couch behind him, my T offers me the same option, yours should too. I've talked about some pretty yucky girl stuff with my very handsome male T - hey, he's got a daughter, he's a single dad, that handsome face was the warmest, most understanding face ever. So not sure what you're asking us here? I think you know, yeah, sure we're going to say it's important - but what's your real question about it? I can't put my finger on it.