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Ygrec23 · Oct 19, 2011, 11:23 AM

Thank you, happy101, thank you very, very much! I can feel your sincerity and care right through your words. What your friend seems to have experienced in his marriage is terrible. His wife seems awful and malevolent. I do know plenty of women who could potentially fill that kind of scenario. But I do have to tell you that my poor wife is entirely incapable of such things, other than feebly attempting to hit me now and then. We've been married for oh so long, and we're old, and we don't have much family, and when you put it all together you get a totally different picture than your picture of your friend and his wife. So, no, we really won't separate. Most of the time is fine. Sometimes she has a little too much alcohol and gets angry. Not very often. Just now and then. It was after one of those episodes that I posted here on PC, feeling pretty disgusted with it all. But no, considering who we are, considering our history, considering our age, and considering my wife's "transgressions," we'll stay together to the end. Take care!

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Originally Posted by happy101

Hi This is all so similar to what my best friend is going through.Of course he only told us after it just shocked him so much despite taking all of it , before.I asked him to go home o have dinner with her the ask her to leave and stay at her Mom's.She needs to get help but its best to separate for a few days..... Being apart gave him enough time, strength, courage to get her out of his life!!!!Immediately when she left my husband and I listened to all his stories and the gory details.I wept at night and was so terribly disturbed.How could he be hurt like that.There are physical scars all hidden so we cant see. Divine intervention, his parents asked him to meet him overseas over a business matter so he is away now.Told his parents and they have asked him to kick her out of his life. he has the support. She (wife) tried to steal more money from him from internet banking and sent emails to all his friends but we stand by him. Please leave her.She will not improve.Pls tell someone very close to you.We care.I knew something was wrong with her.I knew.I didnt know she was so evil to cause so much hurt and pain. Please leave.Please, please leave.Tell your friend and they can plan it in a smart way.Like I did!