thanks everyone , I spoke to T today, told her that I want to reverse yesterday, take it all back, she said she was planning on speaking to her supervisor and the doctors prior to the appointment and all I have done is given them a better picture on how to best treat me, shes also made an appointment for me to see doctor on friday and she said she will come for first half of appointment, she also mentioned this site again and got the name wrong, (i foolishly corrected her! DAMN MY HONESTY!) but the fact she got the name wrong says 1) she is not aware of this site, 2) she has not written it down or anything like that, and was indeed just being nosey like she had stated.