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Originally Posted by sittingatwatersedge
((((((((((( mcl )))))))))) please share with yr T how hard it is for you to go at this pace (a pace that is not yours; no other will work). All Ts know that rushing it is likely to cause the client to flee, and not return, and yours should be very attentive to this kind of input.
Maybe you could agree on a hand signal that means "stop" or "slow down". When I am home again I've often thought of making that kind of agreement with my T, but when I am in that room, never think to do it; thanks for the reminder.
Hope you are able to get to a peaceful place very soon.  |
Funny thing is...I did agree to have a hand signal and was so freaked out that I could not do it. I totally shut down or got into a sort of numb debate and that did not serve me well. I felt completely numb by the session's end. I am really dreading getting through another night like this. Thank you so much for your kindness.