hard to say, ste. she of course can be the only one to decide but your concern is worth noting. the fact that she doesn't get drunk but on few occasions thruout the year gives me pause. could she be drinking at home too with no one the wiser? they do tell us-alcoholics-that when we can't predict the outcome of our drinking we may have a problem.
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