Yes, my T is absolutely on my side. There was only one time I even questioned it...we were talking about my H...and I said "hey, you're supposed to be on MY side" (kind of half-jokingly) and he replied, VERY seriously, "I will always be on your side". And I believed him. He's probably more on my side than *I* am.

Did your T say something to make you feel like he's not on your side??